What is a strap-on and what is it used for?
The strap-on is a sex toy consisting of a dildo attached to a harness or fastening system, allowing for penetration, while keeping hands free.
Its use opens up a wide range of possibilities. It can be used for vaginal or anal penetration, to the practice of pegging (pegging in English), when a woman penetrates a man, or to enrich play between same-sex partners. Some models such as the hollow strap-on are specially designed to address certain situations, notably erectile dysfunction, while others make possible double penetration.
The strap-on is for all couples, regardless of background or sexual orientation, and is part of a a free and evolving vision of sexuality. It encourages the exploration of new roles, the experimentation of different scenarios and the strengthening of intimacy between partners.
Strap-on-Me stands out for its harness-free models, which have profoundly transformed traditional use and overturned the codes of strap-on. More intuitive, more comfortable and more natural, they offer a different experience from classic products with straps.
The different types of strap-ons
The Strap-on-Me selection is available in several types of models, designed to meet all levels of experience, from curious beginners to the most demanding users.
The classic strap-on (without vibration)
The classic Strapon Bendable embodies the very essence of the harness-free strap-on. Made from silicone, it offers a soft texture and a perfectly non-porous surface, guaranteeing comfort and hygiene.
Its particularity lies in its shape-memory technology, which adapts to the anatomy of the person wearing it. This flexibility improves stability and promotes a simultaneous stimulation of the G-spot and clitoris, making the experience particularly immersive and enjoyable.
Available in several sizes (S, M, L, XL), with different lengths and diameters, this model allows for natural progression. It is an excellent choice for users wishing to familiarise themselves with this type of practice, while enjoying a reliable, premium product.
This pleasure accessory stood out at the Red Dot Design Award 2019 of which it was the winner.
The vibrating remote-controlled strap-on
The vibrating Strap-on-Me strap-on embodies the most advanced evolution of the strap-on, combining technology, precision and shared pleasure. Equipped with 3 independent motors, it simultaneously stimulates the G-spot of the wearer, the clitoris and the P-spot (or G-spot) of the partner, creating an immersive and perfectly synchronised experience.
Each motor can be activated separately, offering total control of intensity and sensations. The dildo offers 3 vibration modes combined with 3 intensity levels, giving 9 possible combinations — more than enough to reach orgasm!
The included wireless remote control further enhances this dynamic, allowing your partner to take control of your pleasure from a distance. This interaction adds a playful and strengthens the connection, by playing with roles and the build-up of desire.
The design also incorporates a position memory, guaranteeing a optimal fit and comfortable support throughout use, even when things heat up...
The iconic model Multi-Orgasm, a true best-seller from the brand, takes this technology even further with its 3 independently controllable motors, designed to offer an exceptional level of personalisation. This flagship product from the Strap-on-Me range has been conceived to push stimulation to its peak, enrich possibilities and transform every experience into a moment of total ecstasy.
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The semi-realistic strap-on
The Semi-Real Bendable semi-realistic model is aimed at those who seek a more natural feel. Its texture reproduces the look of skin, with a detailed glans and a smooth surface for sensations as close to reality as possible.
This dildo, available in several sizes and colours, retains the technical advantages of Strap-on-Me, including the harness-free design and bendable technology. It thus combines realism and comfort, while guaranteeing excellent stability during use.
With or without a harness: which fastening system to choose?
The fastening system of a strap-on plays an essential role in the quality of the experience and in the comfort of use. At Strap-on-Me, every model has been designed to offer maximum possibilities, for use with or without a harness, according to the preferences and expectations of each of our users.
Harness-free models, "strapless", are made up of a insertable part in the vagina, which acts as a natural anchor point. This innovative design, signature of Strap-on-Me, eliminates straps and simplifies fitting. It promotes a more intimate sensation, a better connection with the partner and increased stimulation, particularly of the G-spot.
Harness models, remain a popular alternative for their enhanced support. They contribute to a more dynamic use of the strap-on, while offering excellent control of movement. Strap-on-Me offers a beautiful collection of lingerie harness designed to combine aesthetics and performance. The models Heroine, Diva, Rebel and Fabulous stand out for their glamorous design, refined finishes and comfort. Available in fabric or leather depending on the model, they are fully adjustable and compatible with all the brand's dildos and strap-ons.
This dual compatibility is a a real advantage : the same product can be used without a harness for a more natural experience or with a harness for more structured support, depending on the context and desires in the bedroom.
In the sex toy market, there are also other types of fastening systems. The harnesses of jockstrap style offer a sporty hold, the briefs models prioritise discretion and comfort, while the systems Vac-U-Lock rely on a specific fastening mechanism to keep the dildo in place.
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How to choose your strap-on?
Choosing a strap-on depends on several essential criteria. The size is often the first element to consider. For a first experience, it is advisable to opt for a model with a moderate diameter and a suitable length, in order to ease insertion and ensure the partner's comfort.
The material is also a key factor. The silicone used by Strap-on-Me guarantees a smooth, hygienic and durable surface. It is a reference material in the world of premium sex toys.
Shape and texture directly influence sensations. A smooth model will favour a gradual approach, while a semi-realistic model will bring more realism.
Features play a key role. Some will prefer a classic model to focus on movement, while others will opt for a vibrating strap-on to intensify stimulation. Adding a remote control can also enrich the experience and offer new sensations.
Lubricant compatibility should not be overlooked. Silicone strap-ons should always be used with a water-based lubricant to preserve the quality of their surface and ensure optimal use. Strap-on-Me also offers lubricants specially designed to accompany its products, such as the Creamy, perfectly suited to this type of sex toy.
Beyond the technical aspects, the most important criterion remains communication. This type of practice is based on listening, trust and mutual respect. Taking the time to communicate with your partner allows you to adapt the choice of product, explore best practices and build a mutually fulfilling experience.
How to use a strap-on? Our practical tips
Theuse of a strap-on is above all based on communication and trust between partners. First and foremost, it is important to discuss desires, limits and expectations.
Then comes the preparation, an essential step. The sex toy should be cleaned and a water-based intimate gel applied to facilitate insertion and preserve its delicacy.
Setting up the strap-on depends on the type of model selected. A harness-free strap-on is inserted directly: simply position the vaginal egg and adjust the fit. A model with a harness requires precise adjustment of the straps. In all cases, it is recommended to start gradually with foreplay to prepare your body and that of your partner, taking the time to listen to feelings and sensations.
As experience grows, different positions (missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, spooning) can be explored to vary pleasures and discover what suits each couple. After use, a careful cleaning with a gentle soap or a specialist sex toy cleaner helps to ensure the longevity of the product.
The good news is that the strap-on is waterproof (IPX7) which makes for easy cleaning and incredible aquatic play!
