FAQ Strap on me, our answers to your questions

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Products

How do I choose my sex toy?

We've put together a guide to help you choose a sex toy suited to your needs, you can find it here.

I have a question about a product. How can I get in touch with you?

We are available to answer any questions at: 04 86 26 06 40, Monday to Friday, from 9:00 am to 1:00 pm and from 2:00 pm to 5:00 pm. You can also send us a message via our contact page.

How do I start my sex toy for the first time?

If your sex toy is remote-controlled, like one of our vibrating Strap-ons, you need to remove the plastic pull tab from the remote control before first use. This tab is designed to protect the motors of your vibrating Strap-On during shipping.

Orders & Delivery

When will I receive my order?

You will receive an email confirming that your parcel has left our warehouse.

A tracking number will be provided so you can follow the progress of your delivery.

The average delivery time within mainland France is 2 to 3 days, 3 to 5 days for Europe, and 5 to 7 days for the rest of the world.

I made a mistake with my order — what should I do?

The best thing to do is to notify us as quickly as possible by phone or email.

If your order has already been processed and dispatched, simply follow the returns procedure.

Can I exchange one or more item(s)?

Unfortunately, we do not process exchanges. If one of your items does not suit you, you will need to make a return in order to receive a refund for your order. Once the refund has been received, you will then be able to place a new order on our website. However, we cannot guarantee that the desired product will still be in stock at the time of your new order.

Are the parcels identifiable when I receive them?

No, always to protect your privacy and confidentiality, there is no distinguishing mark to indicate who the sender of your parcel is. You can therefore have it received by a neighbour without any concern.

Payment

Does the name strap-on-me appear on my bank statement?

No, we respect your privacy and your orders are placed in complete confidentiality: your bank statement will show the reference "LOVELY PLANET".

Are payments on your website secure?

Your security is our priority. Your data is encrypted and therefore at no risk of being hacked: the SSL certificate guarantees this, as does the https in the page address (the "s" after http stands for "secure"). In addition, a padlock appears on your page, at the top or bottom depending on the browser you are using, indicating that you are browsing a secure site.

Loyalty Programme

How can I sign up for the Private Club loyalty programme?

Go to the dedicated Private Club page, enter your name, email address and password. Registration is free, and you will automatically be enrolled to receive emails related to the exclusive benefits of the Private Club.

If you are subscribed to the newsletter and currently have a customer account created before 3 November 2022, you have been automatically enrolled in the Private Club loyalty programme.

I already have a customer account. Do I need to sign up for the Private Club loyalty programme?

The strap-on-me customer account and the Private Club account are two separate accounts. You can have a customer account without being enrolled in the loyalty programme. However, to simplify the management of points allocation, the email address must be the same on both accounts.

All customers subscribed to the newsletter and with an active account before 3 November 2022 were automatically enrolled in our loyalty programme. If you have had multiple customer accounts on strap-on-me, please note that only one loyalty account was created per person. If you have several accounts and are unsure which one was used for enrolment, you can contact us by email at contact@strap-on-me.com or via the contact form.

Customers who created a customer account after 3 November 2022 and before the launch of the loyalty programme will need to sign up for the Private Club loyalty programme.

Where can I find all the information about my Private Club benefits?

You will find all the information relating to your account on the Private Club loyalty programme page once you are logged in. 

Will I receive points for purchases I made before joining the Private Club?

Orders placed before the launch of the loyalty programme cannot be taken into account in the points balance.

You will only receive points for purchases made after your enrolment in the Private Club. Make sure you are enrolled before placing an order so that you can receive points.

What happens if I have an old email address or multiple email addresses and wish to combine my accounts and points?

Contact our customer service team by emailing contact@strap-on-me.com.com or via the contact form and our team will provide you with a personalised response based on your situation. 

When will I receive my order? Is the loyalty programme free?

Is the loyalty programme free?

How do I redeem my points?

Log in to the Private Club page to view the available rewards and click the "Redeem" button to exchange your points for the promotional code of your choice. 

Can I return my order if I have redeemed my points for a promotional code?

Yes. If you return the entire order, we will refund the total amount spent after the discount has been applied. The points you used to redeem the discount will also be re-credited to your Private Club account.

Example: €100 purchase – €10 obtained by redeeming 150 points = €90 paid + 90 points earned.

If you request a refund, you will receive €90 refunded to the card used for the purchase and 60 points re-credited to your balance. (150 - 90 = 60 points)

I am being refunded for an order — what happens to the points I earned from that purchase?

When an order is refunded, the points earned on that purchase are deducted from your Private Club points balance.

Example: €100 purchase = 10 points. If you request a refund for the order, the 100 points earned from that purchase are removed from your points balance.

I can no longer access my loyalty account — what should I do?

If you are experiencing an issue with your loyalty account, please contact our customer service team at contact@strap-on-me.com or via the contact form

I cannot see my points after placing my order — what should I do?

There may be two reasons: 

01. The points balance is not updating:

Points are automatically added once the order status changes to "paid".

The first thing to note is that there may be a delay in communication between our systems, and points can take anywhere from a few minutes to several hours to appear on your account. 

 However, if you believe you should have earned points but they are not appearing on your account, you can also resolve the issue with these tips:

1. Try refreshing your browser.

2. Try logging out and then logging back in to your account.

3. Check your "Rewards History" in your Private Club account to see if points have been added without you noticing. Your "rewards history" will show you the number of points earned, how and when they were earned, as well as any points redemptions made on your account.

If despite these tips your points balance is still incorrect, you can contact our team at contact@strap-on-me.com or via the contact form and we will look into the issue for you.

 

02. You did not earn points on your purchase.

 Check that you were logged in to the Private Club and that you did not accidentally switch to guest mode. You must be logged in when making purchases in order to earn points. 

 If you did this by mistake, contact us at contact@strap-on-me.com or via the contact form and we will help you apply your points to your account. 

You will also not receive points if you return your purchase or if your purchase is cancelled for any reason. Please note that any points you earn on a purchase that you later return will be deducted from your points balance.

When do my points expire?

Your points expire 1 year after your enrolment date in the loyalty programme if they have not been used, if no activity has taken place in the Private Club, or if no order has been placed before the anniversary date of your Private Club registration.

You will receive an email to notify you as your points' expiry date approaches.

What is the validity period of promotional codes?

Promotional codes are valid for 1 year following a reward redemption. In the event of inactivity before the anniversary date of your Private Club enrolment, both points and promotional codes will expire.  

I received an error message when I referred friends. What went wrong?

We are sorry to hear that. There are a few scenarios that could have triggered the error message.

The first possible scenario is that there was a typo in one of the email addresses you entered, or that you forgot to separate multiple email addresses with commas.

To eliminate any confusion about what happened, we recommend going back and entering each email address one by one, clicking "send" after each one rather than entering them all at the same time.

If you did not make an error in your referral's email address and the referral link is not being sent automatically by email from the Private Club page, we recommend copying your unique referral link and sharing it either via your email address or by sharing it via Facebook, Twitter or Messenger using the links at the bottom of the referral tab. Please don't hesitate to contact our team at contact@strap-on-me.com or via the contact form if you need further assistance.

I have referred several friends but have not received any promotional code(s). Do I need to do anything else?

First of all, thank you for your trust in recommending strap-on-me to your friends.

You earn one promotional code per referral.

If you have not received any referral promotional code(s), it may be because your referrals have not yet placed an order or have not used your unique referral link to visit our site.

As soon as a referral places their first order using your unique referral link, you will automatically receive an email containing your personalised promotional code.

You can also check your "rewards history" to see a list of the promotional codes you have received for each successful referral. Please don't hesitate to contact our team at contact@strap-on-me.com or via the contact form if you need further assistance.